Common Law
Marriage or Mere Housemates?
Historically the law did not
recognize the claim of a common-law spouse against the estate of
their deceased partner. Indeed these relationships were not even
recognized as legally enforceable in some jurisdictions. To this
day, cohabitation still remains a criminal offence in parts of the
United States.
Nevertheless more
and more people seem to be cohabiting—whether in heterosexual or
same-sex unions. Certainly there seems to be less social stigma to
the notion of unmarried couples living together. As well, many long
term same-sex couples are now coming “out of the closet”. What is
more, even the nature of traditional marriages has changed--many
married partners living far more independently of each other than
would have been considered ‘normal’ 20 or 30 years ago.
Previously,
depending on whether or not they had been legally married, there
were significant differences between the rights of surviving
partners to claim against the estate of their deceased spouse—if not
legally married they might have no rights at all.
Recent statutory
changes have reduced these differences in British Columbia. In
British Columbia statutes governing the passing of estate property,
our legislature has significantly expanded of the definition of
‘spouse’. These new definitions include, in certain circumstances,
common law spouses.
The relevant
statutes include the Estate Administration Act (governing
intestacies) the Family Compensation Act (creating a right of
recovery for wrongful death) and the Wills Variation Act
(creating a claim against the estate where the will has not made
adequate provision for a spouse or child).
As we will see in
this paper, these broadened definitions of spouse vary from statute
to statute however all of them include both same-sex and
heterosexual persons cohabiting in a “marriage- like
relationship”. Depending on the statute in question, there are
differing requirements for the length and duration of that
cohabitation.
This paper will
deal with the rights of a common law spouse under three statutes,
namely the Estate Administration Act, the Wills Variation
Act, and the Family Compensation Act.
This paper will
focus on the criteria considered to determine whether or not a party
has proven that he or she is a “spouse” within the meaning of the
statute—in other words whether or not he or she has legal standing
to bring an action under the act in question.
Wills Variation Act
This act provides
for claims against an estate where the deceased dies leaving a will
but that will does not make adequate provision for the
deceased’s spouse or children. In such a case, the Wills
Variation Act permits the child or spouse to contest the
provisions of the will and seek to have their inheritance
increased. For the purposes of the Wills Variation Act,
spouse is defined as follows:
" ‘spouse’ means a person who
(a) is married to another person, or
(b) is living and cohabiting with
another person in a marriage-like relationship, including a
marriage-like relationship between persons of the same gender, and
has lived and cohabited in that relationship for a period of at
least 2 years.”
It is noteworthy
that to prove one is a spouse within the wording of this definition,
the cohabitation need not be continuing up until the time of
the death.
The Estate Administration Act
The Estate
Administration Act governs the passing of the deceased’s estate
when the deceased dies intestate, i.e. without leaving a will.
For the purposes of
this Act, the definition of “spouse” includes a “common law
spouse” and a common law spouse is defined as follows:
“ ‘common law spouse’ means either
(a) a person who is united to another
person by a marriage that, although not a legal marriage, is valid
by common law, or
(b)
a person who has lived and
cohabited with another person in a marriage-like relationship,
including a marriage-like relationship between persons of the same
gender, for a period of at least 2 years immediately before the
other person's death;”
Thus for this
Act, the period of two-year cohabitation must take place
immediately before the other person’s death. In other words,
if the common law spouses had separated prior to the death, then the
survivor would not be entitled to claim a share on an
intestacy no matter how long they had previously cohabited.
Assuming for the
moment that the spouse can bring himself or herself within this
definition, he or she will have the same rights as a legally married
spouse. Under the terms of the current Act a spouse is
entitled to the first $65,000 of the estate, plus a life interest in
the matrimonial home and its contents as well as a share of the
residue (1/2 or 1/3 depending on the number of surviving children).
Where there are no
surviving children, then the surviving spouse will inherit the
entire estate. If there is more than one surviving spouse then the
spousal share will be divided between them as the court may
determine is just.
The Family Compensation Act
This statute
permits the spouse and children of a deceased person to bring an
action for damages against any party who is responsible for the
wrongful death of the deceased.
Under the
provisions of the Family Compensation Act
" ‘spouse’means a person who
(a) was married to the deceased at the
time of death, or
(b) lived and cohabited with the
deceased in a marriage-like relationship, including a marriage-like
relationship between persons of the same gender, for a period of at
least 2 years ending no earlier than one year before the death;
Thus the common law
relationship must have been of at least two years duration and must
have ended no earlier than one year before the death.
What Is a “Marriage- Like
Relationship” in Law?
In order to bring a
spousal claim under any of the three statutes, the claimant must
prove that he or she lived in a “marriage like” relationship with
the deceased.
The question of
whether or not a couple has been living together in a marriage like
relationship is a matter of evidence. McEvoy v. Ford Motor
Company (1988) B.C.J. 1757.
What this means, on
a practical basis, is that it will be very important to canvass not
only the documents but the surviving friends, neighbours, relatives,
co-workers and other witnesses to see what important evidence they
can bring to the table.
Many of the
relevant cases deciding whether a “marriage like” relationship
existed involve the alleged spouse in a dispute with the
beneficiaries of any will (and in the case of an intestacy, with the
next-of-kin).
In our socially
fluid society there are a myriad of relationships which may or may
not qualify as common-law relationships. Estate disputes require
the court to closely examine the nature of relationships of the
couple cohabiting.
For example, a
particularly curious case in our office involved a man who had lived
with a legally married couple for over 50 years. The woman
apparently had sexual relations on a regular basis with one or other
man. She had two children and although they were raised believing
the husband was their father, it appeared that each man had fathered
one of them. After the death of the woman, we argued that our
client, the unmarried man, was also a spouse. The case was settled
the case on that basis.
Another interesting
example involved a successful businesswoman and rancher who died
suddenly in a highway collision. Shortly after her death, her
“ranch hand” suddenly announced that he had actually been her common
law husband. As such, he wanted a good part of her large estate and
brought a claim under the Wills Variation Act.
Our interviews with
the Deceased’s family, friends and employees soon cast grave doubt
on the claim—although the couple had briefly been lovers, it seemed
that had long ended. Instead this ranch hand had been intimidating
his employer and physically abusing her animals whom she dearly
loved. The Deceased was a woman who lived alone many miles from
town. She undoubtedly knew that she could be in great danger if she
fired her ranchhand—he was a keen hunter with many guns and was an
alcoholic and drinking buddy of many of her male neighbours.
The mystery of why
this relationship continued was finally solved when we discovered
her cousin, a “man’s man” humourously known in their large family as
“The Enforcer”. The Deceased and her cousin had agreed that he
would soon move up to her ranch to escort ranchhand man off the
property and take over helping her with the ranch. She died days
before his planned arrival.
As noted above, the
key to these cases is often finding the necessary evidence to
establish the true state of affairs. Needless to say, this case
quickly settled.
Turning to the law,
the oft cited decision of Gostlin v. Kergin (1986) 3 B.C.L.R.
(2d) 264, (B.C.C.A.) is the starting point for determining
whether or not a “marriage like relationship” can be proven. In
that case the court was considering maintenance provisions for
common law spouses under the Family Relations Act which
contains a similar spouse incorporating the test of a “marriage like
relationship”.
In determining
whether or not a “marriage like relationship” existed, the court set
out two discreet elements to be considered.
a)
the subjective element -
whether the couple saw themselves as life partners; and
b)
the objective component -
the couple’s interaction and interdependency.
Delivering the
judgment of the court, Lambert J.A. said, at pp. 267-268
“I would
ask whether the unmarried couple's relationship was like the
relationship of the married couple in that the unmarried couple have
shown that they have voluntarily embraced the permanent support
obligations of s. 57. If each partner had been asked, at any time
during the relevant period of more than two years, whether, if their
partner were to be suddenly disabled for life, would they consider
themselves committed to life-long financial and moral support of
that partner, and the answer of both of them would have been "Yes",
then they are living together as husband and wife. If the answer
would have been "No", then they may be living together, but not as
husband and wife..”
This quotation
appears to focus on the subjective element i.e. whether or
not the couple considered themselves to have taken on the
obligations of husband and wife.
Where the
subjective intention appears elusive, the courts may examine a
number of objective factors. In Takacs v. Gallo (1998) B.C.J.
600 (BCCA) the court listed a number of relevant factors
to assess this objective component. For example:
- Did the
parties hold themselves to the public as committed to one
another?
- Did the
parties live under the same roof?
- Did the
parties have sexual relations?
- Did the
parties eat their meals together?
- Did the party
share resources, financial or otherwise?
- Did the
parties declare each other as dependents?
- Did they refer
to each other in a manner consistent with a marriage like
relationship?
Cohabitation does not
necessarily imply a “Marriage Like” Relationship
Harris v Willie
Estate 2001 BCSC 143 is noteworthy because the court clearly
states that the mere fact of cohabitation does not prove a
“marriage like relationship”
In this case, the
Parrett, J. noted that the court should be very slow to impose on
parties commitments which, by their conduct, they have clearly
not intended to make. Here he found that the couple
- had maintained
significant elements of independence,
- did not commit
to a common principal residence,
- did not
recognize or portray themselves as a family unit; and
- the man did
not allow the woman full access to his financial resources.
In these
circumstances Parrett, J. found that the relationship was not
“marriage- like” and thus dismissed the claim.
Similarly Janus
v. Lachocki Estate 2001 BCSC 1702 involved a claim under the
Wills Variation Act. Here the claimant maintained that she had
lived with the deceased in a common-law relationship for the last
four years of his life.
In dismissing the
claim the court considered that the parties:
- had maintained
separate residences,
- did not
generally refer to themselves as being married,
- were not
generally regarded within their communities as being in a
marriage like relationship,
- did not share
their property or mingle their finances; and
- did not become
economically dependent on one another.
The court held that
while the parties had an affectionate and sexual relationship, they
had not reached a level of commitment where they could be
said to have committed themselves to lifelong financial and moral
support of each other. On this basis the claim was dismissed.
Relationship of
Permanence
Possibly the high water mark to
date for successful common-law spouse claims is the case of
Marszalek Estate 2007 BCSC 324. In this case the court found
that the plaintiff was a common law spouse however it nevertheless
dismissed her claim for damages for wrongful death because she had
not proved causation of the injuries suffered by the deceased.
In its judgment, the court noted
the following feature:
1)
the couple had separate bedrooms
2)
they maintained separate bank accounts
3)
the plaintiff did not want to
marry the Deceased, although he wished to marry her
4)
the deceased had referred to her, in an
examination for discovery, as “ his landlady and friend, but not
lover”
5)
they had separate ownership of property
6)
they did not refer to each other as
spouses on various government forms
Nevertheless the court ruled the
couple had been common-law spouses for the purpose of the statute.
The court found that although their relationship was somewhat
unconventional, their actions spoke louder than their words and by
all of their actions this couple was committed to a relationship of
permanence.
The court followed the test in
Gostlin and found that if each of them had been asked at any
time during the two years preceding the husband’s death, whether, if
the other were to be simply disabled for life, they would consider
themselves committed to lifelong financial and moral support of the
other, both of them would have answered “yes”.
Conclusion
In future there will undoubtedly
be many novel relationships advanced as “common-law relationships”.
The fact patterns may vary from group relationships to long term
same-sex relationships to secretive “housekeeping” relationships.
Presumably many long term relationships, hidden because of
religious, family, or social pressures, will be brought into the
open.
Should this trend continue, most
courts will likely avoid rigid approaches and instead take the
flexible approach demonstrated in the Marszalek case. Nevertheless
it remains clear that mere cohabitation, without more, will not
be enough to convert the relationship into a common law
marriage.
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