In 2014, What Is a Marriage Like Relationship?
Ballance J in Chapman v Trekle 2014 BCSC 2127 recently gave detailed analysis of what constitutes a marriage like relationship in BC today.
The following excerpt is the portion relative to the principles of law.
STATUS AS COMMON LAW SPOUSE – The Legal Framework
 The applicable provision of the EAA is found in s. 1(b), which defines a common law spouse, in relevant part, as follows:
Common law spouse means either
(b) a person who has lived and cohabited with another person in a marriage-like relationship, including a marriage-like relationship between persons of the same gender, for a period of at least 2 years immediately before the other person’s death.
 Austin v. Goerz, 2007 BCCA 586, 74 B.C.L.R. (4th) 39, [Austin] is the leading decision on the interpretation of the expression “marriage-like relationship” within the definition of common law spouse under the EAA. In Austin, the Court of Appeal acknowledged that the interpretation of that phrase was informed by reference to the interpretation of the same phrase appearing in numerous other statutes that address the rights and obligations of unmarried persons in British Columbia. Accordingly, reference to the leading interpretation cases decided in the family law context is also instructive (see also, Buell v. Unger, 2011 BCSC 351).
 One such case is Gostlin v. Kergin (1986), 3 B.C.L.R. (2d) 264 (C.A.) [Gostlin]. There, the Court of Appeal considered a similar definition of common law spouse contained in the Family Relations Act. The Court held that the lynchpin of the analysis as to the status of unmarried persons is whether the couple considered themselves committed to the lifelong support of one another. The Court elaborated that where the assessment of each party’s subjective intention was elusive, reliance on an evaluation of objective indicators may well be necessary. As Lambert J.A. explained at para. 268:
… If each partner had been asked, at any time during the relevant period of more than two years, whether, if their partner were to be suddenly disabled for life, would they consider themselves committed to life-long financial and moral support of that partner, and the answer of both of them would have been ‘Yes’, then they are living together as husband and wife. If the answer would have been ‘No’, then they may be living together, but not as husband and wife.
Of course, in the particular circumstances of any case, the answer to that question may prove elusive. If that is so, then other, more objective indicators may show the way. Did the couple refer to themselves, when talking to their friends, as husband and wife, or as spouses, or in some equivalent way that recognized a long-term commitment. Did they share the legal rights to their living accommodation? Did they share their property? Did they share their finances and their bank accounts? Did they share their vacations? In short, did they share their lives? And, perhaps most important of all, did one of them surrender financial independence and become economically dependent on the other, in accordance with a mutual arrangement?
All those questions, and no doubt others, may properly be considered as tending to show whether a couple who have lived together for more than two years have done so with the permanent mutual support commitment that, in the relevant sense of the family relations legislation, constitutes living together as husband and wife.
 In Takacs v. Gallo (1998), 157 D.L.R. (4th) 623 (BCCA) [Takacs], the majority of the Court of Appeal affirmed the test in Gostlin to the effect that the inquiry should focus on the subjective intention of the parties and that both subjective and objective considerations, none of which are conclusive, are relevant. The objective factors identified in Gostlin and in other case authorities, notably Molodowich v. Penttinen (1980), 17 R.F.L. (2d) 376 (Ont. Dist. Ct.), assist in the ascertainment of the parties’ respective intentions, but will rarely be determinative of the issue: Takacs at para. 55.
 Austin clarified that while at one time financial independence may have been an essential component of a “marriage-like relationship”, that was no longer the case. Such a relationship may exist even where there is no level of financial dependence between the parties (at paras. 55 and 56). At para. 58 the Court elaborated that there is no “checklist of characteristics” determinative of a marriage-like relationship, and approved of the following insightful passage from Yakiwchuk v. Oaks, 2003 SKQB 124 (CanLII), 2003 SKQB 124:
10 Spousal relationships are many and varied. Individuals in spousal relationships, whether they are married or not, structure their relationships differently. In some relationships there is a complete blending of finances and property – in others, spouses keep their property and finances totally separate and in still others one spouse may totally control those aspects of the relationship with the other spouse having little or no knowledge or input. For some couples, sexual relations are very important – for others, that aspect may take a back seat to companionship. Some spouses do not share the same bed. There may be a variety of reasons for this such as health or personal choice. Some people are affectionate and demonstrative. They show their feelings for their “spouse” by holding hands, touching and kissing in public. Other individuals are not demonstrative and do not engage in public displays of affection. Some “spouses” do everything together – others do nothing together. Some “spouses” vacation together and some spend their holidays apart. Some “spouses” have children – others do not. It is this variation in the way human beings structure their relationships that make the determination of when a “spousal relationship” exists difficult to determine. With married couples, the relationship is easy to establish. The marriage ceremony is a public declaration of their commitment and intent. Relationships outside marriage are much more difficult to ascertain. Rarely is there any type of “public” declaration of intent. Often people begin cohabiting with little forethought or planning. Their motivation is often nothing more than wanting to “be together”. Some individuals have chosen to enter relationships outside marriage because they did not want the legal obligations imposed by that status. Some individuals have simply given no thought as to how their relationship would operate. Often the date when the cohabitation actually began is blurred because people “ease into” situations, spending more and more time together. Agreements between people verifying when their relationship began and how it will operate often do not exist.
Underlining in original.
 In J.J.G. v. K.M.A., 2009 BCSC 1056 Dardi J. summarized the broad view the court is to adopt so as to reflect the diversity of marriage-like relationships in the modern world:
 In summary, in undertaking an analysis of whether persons are living together as spouses, the court must examine the relationship as a whole and consider all the various objective criteria referred to in the authorities. The presence or absence of one particular factor will not be determinative. The court must recognize that each relationship is unique and, in applying a flexible approach within the context of the particular relationship, make a determination as to whether the parties intended to and were living in a marriage-like relationship.
 Madam Justice Dardi’s remarks at para. 71 are similarly instructive:
 The essential inquiry is the existence of a marriage-like relationship; not the quality of that relationship. I agree with the observation of the Court in J.A.B. v. H.W.C., 2008 BCSC 644 at para. 115 that: “Just as not all marriages flourish, marriage-like relationships are not all healthy.” ….
 As to the indicia of the cessation of a common law relationship, her Ladyship noted at paras. 38 and 39:
 With respect to what constitutes a termination of a common law relationship, Binnie J. in Hodge v. Canada (Minister of Human Resources Development), 2004 SCC 65, cited with approval the observation of Morden J.A. in Re Sanderson and Russell (1979), 24 O.R. (2d) 249 (C.A.) at 432:
Subject to whatever provision may be made in a statute, a common law relationship ends “when either party regards it as being at an end, and by his or her conduct, has demonstrated in a convincing manner that this particular state of mind is a settled one.”
 In analyzing whether a couple has ceased living in a marriage-like relationship, the key factors include the absence of sexual relations, a clear statement by one of the parties of his or her intention to terminate the relationship, the physical separation of the parties into different rooms of the same house or different residences, and the cessation of the presentation to the outside world that they are a couple: Eisener v. Baker, 2007 BCSC 83.
See also Gosbjorn v. Hadley, 2008 BCSC 219 and Mazur v. Berg, 2009 BCSC 1770.